40 Signs Your Marriage Is Failing (80% of Couples Miss These)

Qasim Adam
21 min readDec 26, 2021
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Did you know that the divorce rate in America is around 50%? While many factors can contribute to a failed marriage, most couples are completely unaware of the subtle signs their marriage is failing until it’s too late.

If you’re worried that your marriage might be headed for trouble, it’s important to be aware of the signs that things aren’t right.

Marriage is a beautiful thing. It’s a bond between two people who have pledged their lives to each other. But sometimes, marriages fail. And often, couples don’t see it coming until it’s too late.

Most couples miss these signs entirely, so don’t let that happen to you. Keep an eye out for these warning signals and if you see them, don’t wait — get professional help right away.

In this blog post, we’re going to discuss 40 signs your marriage is failing. If you recognize any of these signs in your relationship, don’t wait — take action and save your marriage before it’s too late.

1. You’re arguing a lot more than you used to especially about small things.

When a couple first gets together, they often don’t argue at all because everything is new and exciting. But as time goes on, those little annoyances start to get under your skin more and more until eventually they become contentious issues that you disagree about. If you’re arguing all the time, that means your relationship is under a great deal of stress and things aren’t getting better.

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2. You’ve stopped being romantic

This one can be particularly difficult to spot if you’re not paying close attention to the signs. It’s easy to brush off a lack of intimate relations as simply not being in the mood as opposed to recognizing it for what it really is — a lack of interest in your partner.

3. You don’t text or call your spouse anymore.

If you used to text or call each other all the time, but now that has become a thing of the past…



Qasim Adam

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